I’m assuming that this woman has never heard of MGTOW, because she keeps saying that the man “side-chick’d” her.  She was shocked.  One thing this woman doesn’t realize is that that man treated her like how a lot of women have treated us.  That’s why we’re now telling these women no!  What she doesn’t mention is whether or not she has children.  I’m assuming that she does.

She also calls herself a “Queen” throughout her entire blog post.  To make it even worse, she transfers the blame to the man at the end of the post by saying, “Jake was never fit to be My King”.  She’s making it seem like there was something wrong with him instead of her.  It sounds like “Professional Victim Syndrome” to me.

http://misstnking.com/2014/12/29/the-new-side-chick-i-was-her/

…. are you SURE you still want to be treated like a QUEEN, honey?

I got no problem with that. I will f~~~ing decide if you’re a queen and if I decide that you’re not, you will get the f~~~ out.

But in a woman’s mind, being treated like a Queen is thinking you are one of her SUBJECTS.
It’s important to correct her.

When women realize what “being treated like a Queen” actually means, they won’t be so quick to demand it.

It is very important to understand that this sort of “I want a man who pledges his whole life to me … I’m worth it, aren’t I?” perspective is socialized, not something women are born having inside their heads.  The fact is, women are told from a very early age that, if everything works out, they will be a princess/queen.  Men will risk their lives for you; shower you with gifts; literally give you everything you need just because you are beautiful.

It can seem sometimes like women are devious by nature.  After all, they spend so much time distorting their appearance, and acting incredibly passively and in very manipulative ways.  While this is very devious, it is also quite simply taught to women, step-by-step, as the way to act.

Men are taught to beat the crap out of each other, seek out and destroy weakness and opposition.  These are also not things we are necessarily born with, but by the time we enter the adult world we are completely socialized to think this way.

The reason it is important to keep this in perspective is because this stuff all CAN BE UNLEARNED.   Women can, and do, learn to be different from the traditional baby-using money-traps that we have been suckered by.  I know a few.

My cautionary statements are because I really want MGTOW to avoid becoming some sort of pointless “we hate women” flip side of feminism.  There is hope for gender relations.  It does require, in my opinion, a movement like MGTOW.  But that is a means to an end.  Devolving into just mocking or hating/resenting women for the trap they are stuck in (and in a large part, it is a trap too) won’t get us anywhere.

On November 14, 2014, a girl I was interested in said that she wasn’t “in the ideal state” to have a boyfriend at the moment, but she’s the one who came and started flirting with me.  I didn’t go to her, but i was interested.  On December 18, 2014, she began a relationship with someone else.  Why would she have done that if she wasn’t “in the ideal state”?  She is the second girl who did that to me in 2014.  This same thing has been happening to me over the past 16 years!  These women expect me to wait while they mess around and/or seek out other men.

In the blog post above, the same thing happened, but the roles were reversed.  These girls treat guys like that all of the time, so I have no sympathy for a woman when she gets a dose of her own medicine, especially when a lot of women call me a jerk or selfish dirtbag when I refuse to take on another man’s children.  I don’t hate women.  I just don’t treat them any differently than I treat men.

Second base was obviously as far as she was willing to go with me to get what she thought I was worth and so we were done as I certainly wasn’t going to keep trying to sweeten the pot to get the yes I knew was never coming.

So next time a female tells you she’s not attracted to you, make your Hail Mary play and then walk off the field knowing you did all you could. After that, forget about her and move on to the next one. You do not want or need to know anything more about her and what she’s doing with other guys, I promise you. When I found out the kind of guys the abovementioned female actually IS attracted to, I nearly threw up. Honestly, if someone is not into you, you really will NOT be into them. Whatever you might think you want from them is really just coming from frustration or a fantasy that you’re better off walking away from than forcing reality to shatter for you.

Get that busted ass airplane off the runway so that the next one has a clear landing path.

In my younger years, I do admit that I was guilty of showering these types of women with gifts. These days, I’m guilty of wasting too much time with them. I’m also guilty of listening to their “sob stories”. I really need to work on those two issues. I’m learning a lot from this forum, and I’m grateful that it’s here.

NAW BITCH!

They will play the field until it suits them (which means eliminating the risk of rejection).

My ex of nearly nine years played the field at her little Salsa dancing classes and didn’t pull the trigger on me until she secured the emotional fidelity of the guy she is now married to and has a kid with.

I always kept hearing from the girl and her mum, “You are JUST like my dad/husband (depending on the speaker)!”

Like her dad, I am a musician.  Like her dad, I am independent.  Like her dad, I like to have a good time.  Like her dad, I sometimes stay out a little late.  Like her dad, I drive a classic car…hobbyist…etc…

The mum could not control her musician husband.  My ex could not control me either.  What I believe happened is that her mum poisoned my ex’s mind and encouraged her to look for a more pliable jellyfish-man to keep their domestic tranquility.  The funny thing is that her mum was the one who encouraged us to be together.  Now I am stronger and more FREE than ever.  I bet my ex’s current husband has his dick in a JAR.

Freedom Forever Mates!  VASECTOMIES FOR ALL!