Unfortunately, my next move isn’t nearly as simple as I would like it to be. She didn’t have anywhere to go, so I didn’t kick her out. The guy she cheated on me with was her first bf, & he had just gotten out of prison a few months prior. So, he had nothing. I’m now stuck in limbo because we are basically back in a “relations~~~” together! I realize how stupid this is & I’m completely aware that it can’t continue. Luckily, she does have a job & she does support herself, but still — she couldn’t survive on her own currently, so I’m basically the safety net.

Even after she broke my heart, I can’t bring myself to tell her we’re done & she needs to leave. The only thing I can think of is keeping her around until she gets enough money together to get out, or keep her around until she finishes her LPN course (9 f~~~ing months). On top of it all, she was looking forward to moving into the house I’m having built to “have a family home” together. I sort of lead her on about this after her cheating because I somehow thought it should continue at that time.

Now I’m not sure how to tell her that it’s not going to be. It’s just a really weird feeling/situation.

I’m sure most of you will be like “WTF, just tell her to leave,” but it’s really, really not that simple. I wish it was. If I would have just let her go right away it would have been. At least we’re not married haha.

I’m sure most of you will be like “WTF, just tell her to leave,” but it’s really, really not that simple.

Yes it is. KICK THE F~~~ING BITCH OUT. It really IS that simple.

14 years ago I was you. I was with a chick who I had the “you should leave” conversation with. She was crying and asking me how I could be so mean. But the t~~~ was having a fling with some dude she met online. Honey as long as Im not bashing your f~~~ing skull in, Im being much too polite. I pay your f~~~ing rent. But not anymore. GET THE F~~~ OUT.

Cellsworth, you really do need to not care if she has to suck dick to have a place to sleep tonight. All of the good s~~~ and leniency you are offering is not anything she will respect you for. Have the b~~~~ to let a woman hate you. It’s important.

She f~~~ed up and there are consequences for her actions. Jesus Christ, she could LIE and say you HIT HER – TONIGHT – and you will be the one sleeping in jail. NO!! You will not place yourself in this position. You will kick the f~~~ing slag out with zero feeling or remorse and you will enjoy every motherf~~~ing second of it.

Press record on your mobile phone….. and then tell her:

“You have 24 hours to leave and this is not negotiable. I don’t give a f~~~ where you sleep tomorrow night but it will not be here. I am going out and spending the evening in a hotel and will be out enjoying myself in other ways. When I return at 6PM tomorrow you will not be here. The computer is taking time-lapse images and broadcasting them to my phone to make sure you don’t take anything that’s not yours. This conversation is now over. Get out. ”

Done.

Let her hate you. Because we both know that’s the only think stopping you.
ENJOY IT. A soon as she put another dick in her mouth, she’s not your responsibility or problem.
We don’t “rescue” sluts from themselves. Bed. Made. Lie.

I would say “good luck” but luck has nothing to do with it.
I expect confirmation here at 6PM tomorrow.

Don’t disappoint me.

There’s Craigslist!  There’s Rooming Houses!  There’s Youth Hostels!  There’s Brothels!   Tell the Biech to live in her Car!  Buy a f~~~ing tent!

Tell her to move into his Urethra and lay her head on his Nuts!

It is simple for anyone looking in to the situation, harder for you experiencing it, but just think if the shoe were on the other foot, how quick do you think she’d boot you to the curb, and believe me you got no battered man shelters, and handouts to rely on.  Snap out of it, do it because it is the right thing to do, respect yourself, and get over any bad feelings later.  Man, really, what do you want?  She did everything to let you know she doesn’t respect you and you should just get rid of her and instead you’re going to do what?

Have the b~~~~ to let a woman hate you. It’s important.

Holy s~~~, a thousand times this.

The anger is palpable and completely justified. You have given this worthless, desperate, cheating bitch the power to destroy you and every second that you let her hold that power only magnifies her contempt for you and everything that you have done for her.

You let her stay there and she will end up f~~~ing you, literally and figuratively and then literally again. Just think… she could shed a few tears, make a pitiful apology and promise to change then slither back into your arms tonight, blow you, save your sperm and impregnate herself and then claim you raped her and your life would be over. Other men here have had women do worse things to them… ruined families, stolen homes, crashed businesses, emptied pensions, murder attempts… do you really think this woman is incapable of willfully harming you given everything you’ve seen from her so far?

Take KeyMaster’s advice. Do it now.

Well, she actually has a lot of places to go, unless of course you guys are thousands of miles away from any civilization like south of butt f~~~ nowhere Yukon Territory BC, she has options.

1. Hotel/motel/Hostel

2. Family members/Friend’s house

You gotta weigh out the Pros and Cons, and right now the Cons are outweighing the Pros. I understand, you don’t wanna kick her out, that’s understandable. However after she cheated on You, You no longer have an obligation to Her. She f~~~ed up, therefor She needs to get the steppin’.

Believe Me Bro, Women know how to use those puppy dog eyes and those crocodile tears to their advantage. Don’t believe it for one second, just like in the Exorcist when the older priest told the younger priest “Don’t believe a word IT says, and don’t believe anything you see“. Same rules apply.

Food for thought, if you cheated on her with some bitch who got out of Prison, and came back and lived with her, would she let you stay?. would she be willing to “Start a family with you?”. Think about it Bud, and get back to us on your progress.

Best of luck.

Thanks, guys.

-C

I’m hoping this is understandable to the sober haha. I read it a couple times…